Welcome to
Tiny Cottage Therapy’s Blog

I’m Caitlin Blair, LCSW and holistic psychotherapist based in California.

A smiling woman in a light dress and cardigan standing in a grassy field with trees in the background.

I love helping people find more balance in their lives by building awareness
& building practical habits to support their whole selves.


Catching Our Shadows
Caitlin Blair Caitlin Blair

Catching Our Shadows

Although we don't have literal shadows that move freely and in protest of our intentions, we do have "shadow selves"which Dr. Nicole LePera defines as "the undesirable parts of our self that are repressed or denied as a result of conditioning and shame," (2021). In other words, shadow selves are the parts of us that we attempt to hide, ridicule, and ignore in an effort to make them go away because they feel unacceptable. However…

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5 Self-Care Activities for Fall
Caitlin Blair Caitlin Blair

5 Self-Care Activities for Fall

Fall is the world's embodiment of change, slowing down, and finding balance. Days become increasingly shorter and cooler. These months beg for our preparation and care.

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How & Why to Live More Seasonally
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How & Why to Live More Seasonally

When we live according to work & school schedules it is easy to forget that we live in a naturally cyclical world. With all of our modern conveniences, it is understandable that we fail to remember our lives are affected by the moon phases, the tides cycles and daylight hours. At its core, seasonal living is…

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What is Bibliotherapy?
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What is Bibliotherapy?

The idea is not that reading or listening to books replaces person to person therapy but that it offers another way to explore ourselves and receive insights from others. It can be an opportunity to explore different points of view and more diverse experiences.

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You and Who You Were Told to Be
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You and Who You Were Told to Be

Narrative therapy is a style of counseling that focuses on individuals and communities and the stories we tell others and ourselves to understand our world including problems (Morgan, 2000).

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Connect More with Nature
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Connect More with Nature

Did you know there are therapists who specialize in nature-related practices and stress related to the condition of our global environment?

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When Your Body Wants More From You
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When Your Body Wants More From You

My body was trying to send me signals, “we are not okay,” “we need more care,” “something needs to change.” My high stress environment caused me…

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Spinning Your Emotional Wheels
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Spinning Your Emotional Wheels

How many times have you been in the midst of an argument with someone you know well, trying to express how you feel and you are at a loss for words?

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A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding the Right Therapist for You
Caitlin Blair Caitlin Blair

A Practical & Comprehensive Guide to Finding the Right Therapist for You

Let's be honest, trying to find a mental health professional who takes your preferred form of payment/insurance, fits with your schedule, and seems like a good fit sucks--especially in the U.S. It's even worse if we already are experiencing some form of stress that is leading us to trying to find a clinician in the first place.

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