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Tiny Cottage Therapy’s Blog

I’m Caitlin Blair, LCSW and holistic psychotherapist based in California.

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I love helping people find more balance in their lives by building awareness
& building practical habits to support their whole selves.

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Catching Our Shadows

Although we don't have literal shadows that move freely and in protest of our intentions, we do have "shadow selves"which Dr. Nicole LePera defines as "the undesirable parts of our self that are repressed or denied as a result of conditioning and shame," (2021). In other words, shadow selves are the parts of us that we attempt to hide, ridicule, and ignore in an effort to make them go away because they feel unacceptable. However…

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